• Laura’s Moving Out!

    April 12th, 2014

    Laura’s moving out! Plus some great tips for celebrating Easter this week on Jay & Laura TV.

  • Do You Like Pina Colada’s

    April 9th, 2014

    shutterstock_73883827Do you remember the old 70′s song entitled “The Pina Colada Song”?

    The song tells the story of a man and a woman who’ve lost the “magic” of their relationship and in the pre-electronic age of the 70′s took out a “personal ad” in their local newspaper…for you younger folks think Craig’s List or Match.com…

    In her Ad she writes: 

    “If you like Pina Coladas
    And getting caught in the rain
    If you’re not into yoga
    If you have half a brain
    If you’d like making love at midnight
    In the dunes on the Cape
    Then I’m the love that you’ve looked for
    Write to me and escape”

    After reading the ad he responds:

    “Yes I like Pina Coladas
    And getting caught in the rain
    I’m not much into health food
    I am into champagne
    I’ve got to meet you by tomorrow noon
    And cut through all this red-tape
    At a bar called O’Malley’s
    Where we’ll plan our escape.”

    They meet in the bar and realize the love that they wereDREAMING of had been at their side all along.

    Many marriages fall into a similar routine where couples just take each other for granted not realizing that the TRUE man or woman of your dreams is already right by your side!

    So…do something crazy…share a Pina Colada…take a walk in the rain or snow…make love tonight at midnight (even though its SOOOO late) just do something that reminds you that you did marry the man or woman of your dreams!


  • What Would Women Change About Men?

    April 1st, 2014

    What Would Women Change About MenWhat would women change about men?

    NOTHING! At least that’s what Laura says about me, Jay. 

    In our book He Said She Said we surveyed over 1000 married people on communication. On a whim we added one simple question at the end of the survey. “If you could change one thing about the opposite sex, what would it be?” 

    OVERWHELMINGLY the women said they wished men would PAY ATTENTION!

    Again what’s so surprising is that most men don’t realize how much they “MISS” in their marriage with their kids and especially when it comes to their wives! It makes a wife feel special when the husband notices that new hair cut and equally it makes her feel insignificant when he doesn’t. 

    When a husband can “just tell” his wife has had a bad day and then asks her about it, she feels respected and cared for as a woman. Similarly when dad notices the kids tone of voice with mom is not appropriate and then addresses the issue without mom asking him to do so it makes her feel that she is his priority.

    So guys here’s the question: Why can’t you pay attention to the little things?

    Gotta go, Laura’s coming back!


    Get Your Copy of He Said, She Said Here


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